As one of the most iconic symbols of the late 1990s and early 2000s, the television series Sex and the City not only captivated audiences with its stunning fashion sense and witty dialogue but also featured a myriad of bold and provocative scenes that became a hallmark of its time on screen. However, beyond the glamorous frames and the confidence exhibited by its characters, not every actress felt completely at ease with the scenarios they portrayed.

Actresses Reveal Their Discomfort in Hot Scenes from Sex and the City
In a recent interview with People magazine, Kristin Davis – who played Charlotte York in Sex and the City – opened up about her feelings of unease while filming intimate scenes. “I didn’t feel safe,” she admitted. “I had to strip down, crawl into my personal underwear right when we were filming the scene. I had to call my manager at 2 a.m. to check in.”
Kristin Davis mentioned that during the filming of the new Sex and the City series, there were no professional intimacy coordinators to ensure the actors’ safety and comfort as there are today. This lack of support made her feel entirely vulnerable during the intimate scenes. It wasn’t just one time; she often considered backing out due to her concerns about having to expose herself in front of the cameras.

Moreover, she expressed that some of the romantic scenes in Sex and the City felt unnecessary. “I don’t know how the male audience feels when watching because I’m not a man. But I think this movie was developed from a woman’s perspective much more than from a man’s. Women in this show didn’t want to be seen just as those things,” Kristin shared.
It wasn’t just Kristin Davis; Sarah Jessica Parker – who portrayed Carrie Bradshaw – also confessed to the challenges of having to expose herself in the film. She mentioned that she frequently felt pressured to meet expectations, even if the scenes felt too intense at times.

The Pressure of “Living True” for the Cast of Sex and the City
According to Cynthia Nixon – who played Miranda Hobbes – all the intimate scenes in Sex and the City were drawn from real-life experiences. She noted that the series had a fundamental principle: if you hadn’t lived it, it couldn’t be included in the script. This approach made Sex and the City feel authentic and relatable. However, it also meant that the actresses had to “live true” to their characters, often resulting in feelings of unease when they had to bring that reality in front of the camera.
Despite this, the impact of Sex and the City has been significant, creating a cultural phenomenon that has lasted over two decades. The show is considered a groundbreaking moment in how female experiences were portrayed on screen – not just as objects or side characters, but as individuals living their lives with unique emotions, desires, and aspirations.
Today, when discussing Sex and the City, people don’t just think of high heels, cocktails, and witty conversations but also reflect on a pivotal moment in women’s journey to reclaim their narrative and voice on screen. However, it’s important not to overlook the nuances – where the actresses themselves had to project confidence while secretly seeking ways to escape the pressures of filming late into the night.
